It could mean they want to be friends with you or date you or fuck you. They want to wear makeup in elementary school, have sex in middle school, and move into their own apartment in school. They want to be single for as long as possible to keep their options open.
They want to hear that we want something semi-serious that could potentially turn serious if the planets aligned the right way. Half of all marriages end in divorce. Why is it so hard to meet someone people would rather keep their distance from love than risk getting their heart shattered. We can meet someone on Tinder. We can text them for months.
There are enough assholes out there to screw over the entire population. That means pretty much everyone you meet will have some sort of baggage. They settle for meaningless sex instead. Our friends, who have zero desire to get married or move in with someone, are the ones who will find the love of their life first. It likes screw with us. Liars screw up our plans. Why is it so hard to meet someone people like us, people who want something serious, Why is it so hard to meet someone screwed.
We have to out and talk to people, but we have to be patient at the same time. Holly is the author of Severe d: A Creepy Poetry Collection.
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